No more endless swiping and ghosting. On Trofsy, you set your own value for your time. Serious people pay you to meet. It’s simple: stop wasting time, and start meeting people who actually show up.
Launching soon in select cities
When someone agrees to pay you upfront to meet, it instantly filters out bots, scammers, and people who aren’t serious. You stay in complete control — you can accept, decline, or counter any offer. That one change fixes most of what’s broken with modern dating.
Trofsy is built exclusively for public social meetups. A Meet Offer is simply a mutual agreement for payment to meet — nothing more is implied or allowed.
You are always in full control. You can decline or counter any offer, and you only meet when you feel completely comfortable. All first meetings are expected to take place in public places.
No. Trofsy is built strictly for real-world social meetups — things like coffee, drinks, lunch, dinner, or activities. A Meet Offer is simply a mutual agreement for payment to meet. Nothing beyond that is implied or allowed.
We take safety seriously. All first meetings are expected to happen in public places. You can decline any offer, stop talking to someone at any time, and only meet when you feel comfortable. You can also bring a chaperone if it makes you feel safer.
Requiring a paid Meet Offer naturally filters out most bots and scammers. Since they have to pay you real money to contact you, they have little incentive to create fake accounts.
Yes, creating a profile, browsing, and exploring other users is completely free. You only need to add funds to your account if you want to send or accept Meet Offers.
Absolutely not. You can decline or counter any offer you receive. You’re never obligated to meet anyone.
You’re not locked in. If either person changes their mind after accepting an offer, you can mutually cancel with no penalty. The offer is simply cancelled and the money is refunded.
We’re currently in the final stages of development and plan to launch in select cities very soon. Join the waitlist and we’ll notify you as soon as Trofsy becomes available in your area.
Are you well-connected in your city? We’re looking for a small group of Trofsy Ambassadors to help us launch successfully.
Thank you! We'll notify you as soon as Trofsy launches in your area.